Published: June 7, 2016
A book written about a friendship between two women and how it changes, develops, pushes and pulls… by a man. Actually, he does a very good job portraying the intricacies of a female friendship. It is a book many would describe as a “summer read,” a book that doesn’t really go anywhere. Nothing extraordinary happens, but you feel the nuances of the friendship and relate to them. It is a friendship between two girls who met when they were 11 years old and the novel follows their friendship into their 30s. One of the girls is “rich” and the other is “pretty.” These adjectives don’t define them, but definitely play a role in who they are and who they become. The novel is a realistic look at how friendships look uneven at times and from many different angles, at how there are intrinsic and external factors that push and pull the friendship together and apart. It shows how beautiful a thing friendship is when it is long-lasting with so many shared experiences that make two people feel like siblings, even when the two people on the surface may seem so different.
- Why does this friendship work?
- Who did you relate to more, Sarah or Lauren? Why?
- Did you feel that their friendship was lopsided or equal? How? In what ways?
- What do you think the most important components of a friendship are?
- How do you think friendships are changing in this digital age?
- Do Sarah and Lauren seem closer to themselves or their families? Do you think this is typical? Does this change with marriage and relationships?
- Describe an important friendship to you. How much work do you put into your friendships now and in another time in your life?
- If you were to rank your priorities in your life, where would friendships rank?
- Were there any clues while reading this that the novel was written by a man?