Published: April 25, 2017
Format: E-book from Netgalley
5 HUGE STARS! AMAZING! INCREDIBLE! FULL OF KINDNESS, COMPASSION AND HUMANITY!
I have been looking forward to this book ever since I heard it was coming out. It is a companion book to ‘My Name is Lucy Barton which was published last year. ‘My Name is Lucy Barton’ largely involves conversation between Lucy Barton and her mother in the hospital where Lucy remains hospitalized with complications of appendicitis. It is what is unsaid that is so powerful in that book. The reader becomes aware of extreme poverty and abuse in Lucy’s childhood. Lucy and her siblings were mostly shunned by the other children of their town. However, Lucy has made it out of Amgash, Illinois. She is married though that marriage is failing. She is a writer. She is looking forward, but during this time with her mother, she is also looking back. ‘My Name is Lucy Barton’ is so intriguing, but it leaves the reader with so many questions. So, I could not have been any happier upon hearing that this book was being published.
Anything is Possible, published about one year after My Name is Lucy Barton is told in short stories focusing on different people’s lives in adulthood who had lived in the town Lucy had grown up in. It reminds me so much of Olive Kitteridge in the manner in which it is written. Each short story could be published in it’s own right, however, the flow of these stories and their connections to each other make for an incredible read.
It is heartrendingly beautiful, so full of life and heartache. It is so full of humanity.. of the human experience. It describes feelings, emotions, nuances of relationships so well. You experience the pushes and pulls of family, town and the world on the individuals in these stories. Amgash is a small poor town in rural Illinois. There are not many opportunities for upward mobility if one ends up living in town. Those who escape lead vastly different lives, but their pasts continue to haunt them.
Each story is intense in it’s own right. Each tells of a realization of self or family that is immensely important and a turning point in that person or family’s life. Some of these stories had me sobbing, they were that emotional and real. They are all deeply affecting stories, each and every one. They were so compelling that I would not want to stop reading at night. Despite wanting to keep moving ahead, I could have read the same sentence over and over and extracted more meaning from it each time. Each sentence was so loaded and powerful.
But, really what is most special about the book is the message or maybe the many messages. This book tells us that loving imperfectly is ok. Loving imperfectly can be lovely. It tells us that no one is alone, there are always others with shared similar experiences. It demonstrates how a simple small act of compassion can have such a huge impact and effect on the lives of others. It teaches us that feeling pain is actually a gift, for were we not to feel pain, that would be the real tragedy. This novel is about reconnecting with the past and making amends before death. It is about recognizing heroes and heroines, masked in normal everyday clothing. And of course, Elizabeth Strout does all this so eloquently and lovingly. This is a must read.. definitely my favorite book this year!
- What is the meaning of the title?
- Discuss the relationship of this book to ‘My Name is Lucy Barton.’ Do you think this book was a necessary counterpart? Is this book worthy of standing alone, aside from reading ‘My Name is Lucy Barton’?
- Was there a particular character in these stories you most enjoyed or related to? Who and why?
- Discuss the effects of extreme poverty and abuse on various characters in this novel? How was Pete affected? Lucy?
- Discuss Lucy Barton’s father? How did his past affect the way he treated his children? How are Pet and his father similar?
- Discuss the secret Tommy keeps from his wife after the fire. What happens when Tommy shares this secret with his wife?
- Discuss the theme of sexual inability or lack of sexual desire as relates to childhood experiences. (Pete, Patty, Siggy)
- Discuss the pain that Charlie and Siggy share. Do you think this is what attracts Patty to each of them?
- Discuss Linda Nicely’s complicity in Jay’s escapades. Why is she complicit? Why does she stay with him?
- Discuss the effect of compassion on someone who is not expecting it: Patty towards Lila Lane and Karen-Lucie towards Linda Nicely.
- Discuss the “Hit-Thumb Theory” (the spaciousness of calm before the crash and crush of real pain) and how it relates to this novel.
- Compare and contrast Mary Mumford’s life in Italy as and aging woman to what it would have been in Amgash. What is it that causes Angelina to finally recognize the heroine in her mother?
- Dotty owns a B&B and gets to know the guests in different ways. Why does she feel used by Shelby and her husband yet endeared to Charlie?
- Annie feels a closeness with and upon understanding her father better. Explain this.